So, I’m currently pregnant by my ex, and we’re not together, but we’re still in contact and seeing each other. Things between us have been really complicated, and I’m dealing with a lot of emotional stress. On top of that, he’s been flirting with this other girl, even though he told me they’re not talking anymore. I’ve seen them interact online, and it’s been driving me crazy, especially when he’s been trying to convince me to have an abortion while engaging with her.

I’m frustrated and hurt because while I’m dealing with such a huge decision, he’s out here flirting with someone else, and that’s adding to my stress. I’ve told him multiple times that this would only cause chaos, but he continues to do it. I’m trying to stay calm, but it’s getting harder. I’m literally a ticking time bomb at this point, and I’m worried about what might happen if I keep bottling up this anger.

Because of everything that’s been happening, I reached out to the girl and told her that I didn’t want her involved in this. I’m afraid that with all the lies, disrespect, and frustration, she’ll get dragged into my anger. I didn’t want to treat her like my enemy, but I can’t help the way I’m feeling right now. I just asked her to step back and not add more weight to what I’m already carrying.

I know it’s not her fault, but I’m honestly struggling to handle everything, and I just want peace. I’m not sure if I did the right thing by messaging her, but I just couldn’t keep this all inside anymore.

So, AITA for being upset that my ex is flirting with another girl while we’re still seeing each other and trying to convince me to have an abortion, and asking her to step back?