Hi there! Se here's what's going on:

I (19F) met my bf John (24M) two and a half months ago. We dated very much and intensly, got together after one month right before I moved abroad for 4-5 months. For the last 1.5 months we have been doing longdistance. Everything was fine for the first month, we called twice a day and texted even though we had mayor time difference (8h). In the last few weeks we still called once a day but he hasn't texted anymore except for good morning. Usually not a big deal, but I have CPTSD (diagnosed) which I told him about. So the last couple of days I woke up, having texted him before I went to sleep, knowing that he only went to sleep one ot 2 hours before I woke up. He had the whole day to reply. What happens is my brain then (and I told him about it), is I get anxious- like VERY anxious. I start thinking "omg, is he mad", "what did I do wrong?", "did something happen to him", "what if he will never text me again?", "he will probably just ghost me". And it's annoying to spend my days like that until he wakes up. I have expressed that, he managed to text for a couple of days and now is back to not doing it.

Would I be the asshole for breaking up over this? Can I handle the situation in any better way? I like this man a lot, like A LOT A LOT but I feel like he is not very reliable and that is a trait that's so important to me. What should I do?