Hello I’m a 33 (f), daughter of an old couple 78(m) and 73 (f) but my mother have a problem, she is not okay of her mental health (She has epilepsy but has not been treated for more than 25 years)

My dad has been in bed for a week because he broke his pelvis and must be at rest for 2 months, because if hospital operate him, he may die

My mom talks to her sisters and brothers complaining, they give her solutions but she doesn’t want to spend money, in addition to verbally mistreating my dad that he should d!e

Yesterday one of my aunts spoke and heard the abuse, so I talked to her worried and told her that if my mom doesn’t want to take care of my dad, let them take her with them and I stay to take care of my dad, but a cousin talk to her about this conversation that I have and my mother is furious with me, she already threatened to sue me and I have recordings of what happens with my dad

So aita?

(English is not my first language so sorry and I’m from Mexico)