📝 AITA for calling out a Hinge match for ignoring my messages?

By Least_Photograph2759 • Score: 1 • April 12, 2025 12:04 AM


Friends and I are debating whether I'm the Asshole or not so we thought Reddit would know best!

TL;DR:Hinge guy asked about my weekend, I replied in detail (films, book, botanical gardens, coffee shop hunt), he ignored all of it and just talked about himself. I joked, “Loving the disinterest in whatever I was up to LMAO,” and then engaged with his stuff. He unmatched me. AITA?

So I matched with this guy on Hinge. He seemed alright, nothing extraordinary, but I thought I’d give it a go. He opened with, “Hi, what were you up to this weekend?” and I gave him a detailed answer over four messages. I mentioned the four films I watched over the weekend (including Tron: Legacy, which I highlighted because the Daft Punk soundtrack is incredible), a book I read (Giovanni’s Room), a visit to the Botanical Gardens, and how I’ve been trying out different coffee shops around Manchester to eventually become a regular somewhere.

His response? “Oh wow, those are so many things.” No engagement, no follow-up, nothing. Then he went on a long tangent about his own weekend, with no acknowledgement of mine.

So I replied, kind of jokingly, “Loving the disinterest in whatever I was up to, LMAO,” and then I still asked further questions on his weekend update and commented on it so I wasn’t just being passive-aggressive. He unmatched me after that.

AITA for calling him out on his disinterest?

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