By EurynomeAether • Score: 0 • April 7, 2025 3:16 PM
Hi, I'm a transmasc ftm and I'm thinking of cutting off my parents over a recipt. I'm an autistic and non-binary with a prefrence to male pronouns. My parents do not respect my pronouns more than any stranger on the internet
A while ago my dad sent me a recipt of all the stuff he got me for my first apartment (I tried to be as far away from them as possible) and got a recipt of how much he spent.
It was about 2,000nis (new Israeli shekels).
I was confused as to why he even sent it to me, then I talked to my friends who I forwarded it to and they told me - it was to access my home. My safe space, without the small boundary of ~ use my pronouns.
With this such a small boundary I though, "It would be hard but they love me so they will try, right?" RIGHT?!
My mother told me "I went through so many treatments to get my baby girl," "the girl with female genitals that can never change," "it's impossible for me to ever TRY because you're my little baby girl." Even going as far as to FORCE me to use the pronouns she deems me to be by telling me I'm incorrect or just repeating a question until I answer to her version of me. You get the idea.
My dad pretemded to "try" untill he realised that I wouldn't budge untill he used them he's not going to get access even with all the money he spent.
Once they both got access for delivering stuff to my home my dad went straight (heh heh) to using my incorect pronouns without a second thought. Mom never tried and the only person who is trying and correcting both our parents and herself was my sister (I have a story about that while debocle too).
So reddit, aita for wanting to cut contact because of a recipt?
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