So I (19F) have been friends with a girl ‘Sarah’ (18F) since we were about 11 years old, we were very close when we were younger, and continued to be up until we were 16/17. When we were 16/17 Sarah got into a relationship, while she was in this relationship we went from seeing each-other 2 times a week to not at all because she wanted to spend all of her time with her boyfriend. At the start I looked past this as they were a new relationship, but then I quickly realized she completely stopped reaching out and messaging me back, I called her to ask if I have done something and she said along the lines of “Of course you haven’t done anything sorry I’m always with ‘Boyfriends name’ we will talk soon” She continued not reaching out- unless she was asking to borrow money she would occasionally drop a message or call. To cut it short, Sarah and that boyfriend then broken up a few months later and then our friendship was back to normal, apart from it getting a little annoying sometimes because she constantly spoken about her ex at any given chance, I thought it was great that our friendship was back on track, always chatting and always seeing each other. And then this year she has got into a new relationship again and it’s the same situation all over again, we haven’t properly spoken for around 3 months and have not met up with each other for 4 months. I realized this is the same situation as last time and I am also aware that I am not the only friend she has done this to. So last week I decided to give Sarah a call and bring this up to her and how I feel about it, she instantly got offended and put a guard up. Telling me she believes I should be mature enough to handle that girls eventually gravitate towards their boyfriends rather than friends. This instantly upset me because that was not my point, my point is that our friendship seemed like it is not important to her unless i can benefit her or if she is single and bored. I have now removed her from all socials. AITA for feeling and acting this way?