So I (15M) came out in a discord server with my friends as a Demiromantic Demiboy. One of the members (lets call them Pauline) is a trans woman (14F) and uses She/They pronouns.

Please note that when I am referring to deadnaming I'm using their old username.

After I came out this person replied to my message saying that "Demiromantic isnt valid. Its just saying your straight but it takes more time to develop feelings" as for being a demiboy "your just a man but les masculine". I snaped. I cussed them out and kept deadnaming them. Looking back on the matter i dont regret it. I have them blocked and im chatting in another server with the same friends minus Pauline.

So Reddit. AITA?