I (16F) am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend (20M). We have been together for three years. Recently, I have observed a concerning pattern in his comments regarding my body weight. He frequently expresses negative opinions about my physique, which have become increasingly distressing. My height is 4'4, and I weigh 90 pounds. Although I have always been petite, his remarks led to feelings of self-consciousness and discomfort. He has explicitly stated that I am "fat" and that my height is problematic.

This situation is particularly complicated due to my ongoing struggle with an eating disorder. My boyfriend’s comments intensify my concerns about body image, leaving me uncertain about how to address these issues with him. While I wish to preserve our relationship, I am acutely aware of the need to prioritize my mental and physical health. I seek guidance on how to navigate this challenging situation. What should I do? aita

Edit: He keeps telling me that I should eat less. I also think that I have developed an eating disorder, and he said that is good for me and that I should keep starving myself. It makes me look better. And he gets mad a me when I eat something with a little sugar in it. What should I do?

Als,o I want children, but I'm afraid that this will affect that