I’ve been with my boyfriend for a while now, and honestly, I thought things were fine between us. Nothing perfect, but I trusted him.

So the other day, he started getting Twitter notifications while we were hanging out, and it caught me off guard because I didn’t even know he used Twitter. It’s never come up. He’s never mentioned having an account, and it’s just not something we’ve ever talked about.

when i could get his phone, I unlocked his phone and went straight to Twitter. I started scrolling through his likes, replies, and posts, I saw alot of NSFW content. Reposts, comments some of them flirty. I looked up the account on my phone. What I saw made me feel sick.

It’s a full NSFW account where he’s been posting himself. His face isn’t in it, but it’s obviously him. he was posting videos I already had of him. I looked through his following nothing but girls who make Twitter porn.

And He’s not doing it for money. There’s no OnlyFans, no links, no promotions just him posting and interacting with other girls who do the same thing. Like it’s a hobby or something. Meanwhile, I knew nothing about this.

I showed one of my friends the account because i was telling her about what i just seen and how i was going to approach this situation with him, When I finally brought it up to him, he got mad that I showed someone. Like…? You’re out here posting your dick online for strangers to see, and I’m the problem for confiding in a friend? He really tried to flip the situation and act like he was the one being betrayed. Like I violated his trust or something. It was honestly wild.

Eventually, he calmed down and apologized. He said it was just something he wanted to try, that it made him feel confident or whatever.. so validation? from strangers. Like, in his head, it was harmless because there was no “physical cheating”. it absolutely was. Posting sexual content, interacting with other people like that, keeping it all a secret… how is that not a betrayal?

He said he didn’t want this to break us up. That he wasn’t trying to hurt me and how sorry he is and he would delete the account. But the thing is if I were doing the same, If he found out I had a secret NSFW account where I was posting myself and talking to other men like that? He would’ve been done with me. No doubt in my mind. I would’ve been on full blast. He never asked how I’d feel. Never even told me he had Twitter. Just did it behind my back.