📝 AITA for “ditching” my friend.

By DatBoiRoman • Score: 3 • April 14, 2025 1:53 AM


Little backstory to begin with me (18M) and my friend “Z” (17M) have been friends for almost a year hanging out almost every day or at least 3 times a week, we work construction together as well and use my car for transportation (i cover all expenses and regularly his food.) Today at work we had to use sledgehammers to break and put concrete into a trailer, took almost all day and we all got sunburnt as shit. Fast forward to getting back to his (Z) house he decides he wants to ride his dirt bike up to the skate park and wants me to take one of our mutual friends/coworkers (A) to the skate park with me and meet him (Z) at the skate park, we were getting ready to leave to head up there when he (Z) texted us and told us that someone who I have a restraining order against and has made verbal and physical threats as well as attempting to “jump” me with multiple people was there and I decided with my friend (A) that I was gonna take with that it would be better to not go so we called my best friend (Z) and told him we weren’t gonna go and he seemed irritated (mind you we never told him that we would come) so we stayed at his (Z) house and chilled there until he (Z) got back (his family is basically my second family) and when he got off he went absolutely ballistic and would not stop talking about how we “ditched him” and we “left him out there in the cold” while he had a dirt-bike that wouldn’t even get close to fitting in my car with him (Z) then started screaming and pushing me and telling his mom to kick us out of the house (she agreed with us) so we just left realizing we weren’t welcome. We are currently sitting in the car down the street from his house as i write this, will provide updates if any arise.

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