AITA for being upset with my daughter because she acted like we never discussed having dinner on Easter Saturday night? She told me a few weeks ago that she and her husband are going to his parents’ on Easter Sunday, so I said, “Ok, we’ll grab dinner on Saturday night.”and moved on. I understand that we need to be flexible and accommodating now that she’s married.

My husband even talked about it with my son in law last weekend at a family function. Today when I reached out to firm up plans (shall we go out or would you rather we cook and you come over?) she started telling me all the reasons why she probably can’t make it.

I respect that she and her husband need to make time for his family. We’ve always made some time for family on the holiday, even if it was the night before. I’m very hurt that she would want to bail on us.

I told her so and she said i’m being manipulative. We’ve always had a good relationship and i’m surprised and hurt that she would want to blow us off on a holiday weekend and then call me manipulative for wanting to see her and her husband at an alternative time. We don’t live far and we’ve always treated them well so i don’t understand her behavior.