So, as the title says, I have been feeling a little irritated by my two best friends lately, and I'm not sure if my feelings are justified.

My birthday is coming up on the 28th of April, and I wanted to book an escape room for the three of us on the 2nd of May. I asked both of them on the 19th of April if they would be free that day since they both work. They told me they weren’t sure, but they would let me know as soon as they could confirm.

Now, it’s the 26th of April, and I haven’t received any messages from either of them. Then I get a message from Friend A saying she’s visiting Friend B, and she asked if I wanted to join them. However, I wasn’t ready at all (I still needed to shower and get ready, which would have taken over two hours), so I had to decline. I was a bit hurt, though, because they hadn’t even checked in earlier to see if I was free to join them.

When I asked again if they could come on the 2nd of May so I could book the escape room, Friend B let me know she couldn’t make it. I then suggested the 3rd of May instead, but Friend A said she wasn’t sure if she would have work that day.

So, AITA for feeling irritated by all this?