My boyfriend would rather jerk off to porn than to videos of me doing his kink that he’s obsessed with. I’ve asked him about it and he says that it’s not about what he’d rather watch it’s out of habit and convenience but like.. idk. I don’t know if I buy that. Maybe I’m overthinking it, but we as humans are pretty simple in that aspect. We’re aroused, we want to watch something to get off to, we think about what we’d like to watch and then we go look for it. Simple. I feel like if he’d rather jerk off to videos of me he just would. AITA for being kind of sad about that and/or hurt? Again, maybe I’m overthinking it, but it hurts me that my own partner would rather get off to random naked women on the internet than his girlfriend, especially when I’m doing things that he’s REALLY into. I get that there is more variety on porn, I understand that, and I don’t expect him to watch me EVERY SINGLE TIME, but he says he hardly ever does bc he just “doesn’t think about it” which arguably hurts more. You’re aroused and yet you don’t even think of me doing naughty things? Ouch. Am I in the wrong here? Men, is this normal? Would you rather get off to porn than your girlfriend?