šŸ“ AITA for having my phone on silent?

By Ok-Honey-4042 • Score: 7 • April 16, 2025 2:39 AM


Writing here because my FiancĆ© has told me too. To give some perspective, it’s a Tuesday, I’ve spent the majority of the afternoon in bed, as I have had a migraine from hell, so my phone has been on silent, all day, my partner went out to an open mic with his friend, and has come storming in at 246am, telling me I’m a piece of sh*t for having my phone on silent, I apologised and asked what was wrong, garenteed he wanted me to take his friend the next town over, and bring him home(which I couldn’t do for 2 reasons, my 2 children under 8 are asleep, and the medication I’ve taken for my migraines, meant I couldn’t drive)

Anyhow, I’m now on the sofa, while he is sound asleep in bed telling me how he isn’t speaking to me until I admit I’m in the wrong. How the relationship is over, and ā€˜I can get a thousand of you, I’m not putting up with this shit’

Baring in mind he went out Friday, and didn’t return until 730AM and when I called at 545 am onward, no response.

Yes I appreciate if something was wrong, but he’s put his mum as his emergency contact, so I wouldn’t get a call anyway. I’m just sat crying on the sofa wondering why I got woken up at 246 to my so called life partner telling me how worthless I am.

AITA?

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