To give a bit of context to the situation, my(25f) car's engine seized up while I was taking my partner(27m) to work. My partner and I are not in a good place right now financially, so it's not like we had any extra money to get another vehicle. I will admit fault to that as I haven't been able to work a full time job dude to medical issues that landed me in the ER 2 days before my car died. But My parents were able to help me get a cheap one and got it registered, it's not pretty but it drives and I'm more than grateful to them for helping us. So tonight was the first night I was able to drive it and get my partner from work. As soon as he got in the car he asked if he could drive and I told him no, but maybe tomorrow. He stated "well you've already driven it before." And I informed him that tonight was the first night I've actually been able to drive it and told him no again. He then got irritated and I told him he has no right to be upset because I told him no to driving my new (to me) car and he told me that I "invalidated his feelings" and he refused to talk to me the entire way home. Wouldn't talk as we brought groceries in, walked around aggressively and was aggressively putting said groceries away. I separated myself to calm down and ended up coming back out and he acted like nothing happened. I told him I would like an apology for how he acted and explained my feelings in all of this. I acknowledged that yes I did invalidate his feelings and he has a right to be upset but I wasn't apologizing until he did. He also acknowledged he was in the wrong for his actions but refuses to apologize until I do and he'll "see me in hell cause that's how long it'll take for me To apologize."

I can see where I might be the asshole and I'll swallow my pride if I am in the wrong here, I just don't feel like he should feel entitled to my vehicle that's not in his name, the insurance doesn't have him on it.