So this is one of those things that I thought was harmless but now I’m wondering if it was a jerk move

I’ve been married for a year and my coworkers were asking the other day how my wife and I met

I told them we met through mutual friends which is not true

We actually met online (sSo this is one of those things that I thought was harmless but now I’m wondering if it was a jerk move

I’ve been married for a year and my coworkers were asking the other day how my wife and I met

I told them we met through mutual friends which is not true

We actually met on Kick (she's a streamer)

She was a streamer I was just a guy in chat we got talking in DMs started video calling one thing led to another and it actually worked out

We’ve been together a few years now and it’s been great

But I’ve told people the mutual friends story a few times now because every time I even think about saying we met through a livestream chat I just know people are going to judge

Like oh you met a girl while you were watching her stream and she actually dated you

Even when I’ve hinted at it lightly people have made faces or jokes about simps and stuff like that

Anyway one of my coworkers just found out the real story because I guess my wife casually mentioned it to someone at a party and now people at work are acting weird about it

A couple of them straight up asked me why I lied and I said I didn’t want to get clowned for it

One guy said it was shady to lie about how you met your wife and it made it seem like I was ashamed of her or that I didn’t respect how we met

That’s not true at all I just didn’t want to deal with the weird vibes or feel like the office joke

So yeah AITA for not being honest about how we met