We’ve discussed a lot and it just seems like she wants me to just plan it when it’s her special day, and i keep trying to tell her that it’s for the better for her to make the wedding the way she wants, and i keep getting the same reactions, i don’t know what else to do, ive tried reasoning with her but she’s trying to put transformers on our cake (transformers is a personal thing for me) and she’s gonna make it look like a kids cake. she didn’t take that well, i didn’t even think she liked my transformers, she would buy me them but i didn’t actually think she cared about them, but i just don’t want her friends and family to think their daughter is marrying a childish stupid guy. i just want her to plan the wedding the way she likes and the way that will make it her perfect day. AITAH?

Edit: She wants the early marriage, and i’m excited for the marriage, i just don’t wanna give her bad input, im scared that my own opinions and options would make the wedding not as good.