Ok so this happened recently and it's super petty but I'm kinda hung up on it and feel like I'm going crazy so here I am. So I'm in college right now and I'm rooming with my friend, let's call her Ashley. So this semester has been kind of rough for me for personal and school related reasons and the other day I had a mini breakdown in our dorm. Whatever, it happens and obviously Ashley saw me crying because we're living in this tiny room together. She asks what's wrong and I tell her I don't want to talk about it so she drops it. End of the story, whatever. The next day one of our mutual friends is acting basically like she knew what happened. She asked if I was ok, bought me chocolate because she "felt like it", etc. So I decide to ask Ashley why she told our friend that I was crying before I had to leave for work because I didn't want to say something mean but like wtf. She admits to it and said she wanted to know what was up with me but she didn't mean anything by it. I say ok and leave for work. For some context, I have told her that I struggle with depression and she's not seen me have a breakdown but knows they've happened. I was a little rude when asking her but not overtly mean (I don't think) and quite literally all I said was "Why did you tell [friend] that I was crying?" and "Ok" before I left. I apologized for being rude in the afternoon the next day after calming down a bit and she tells me she had a panic attack because of what I said??? I've seen her have much worse fights (aka actual fights) with other friends that she was closer with and be fine so now I kinda feel like she's gaslighting me or something? I don't know I'm just confused and don't think I even really did anything bad, but I'm bad at social cues sometimes so maybe I did? So AITA?