I've been with my girlfriend for three years. One thing I've never liked doing sexually is giving oral. I was open about this from the start, we tried it once but it just isn't enjoyable or pleasurable for me.

I never ask for oral from my gf as I know it's not fair. Sometimes she gives me blowjobs as she likes giving them but I never ask or expect them.

We still do other things sexually for foreplay eg use toys, fingering etc so it's not like I just expect to skip past foreplay. Last night my girlfriend had initiated sex and she asked for oral.

I said no and mentioned that she knows I don't enjoy it. She said I should try again but I just said that I have tried and know I don't like it.

She didn't drop it and asked me again. I told her she shouldn't be trying to pressure me into doing sexual acts I'm not comfortable with.

I asked how she would feel if I repeatedly asked her for anal but she said it's not the same thing. I asked her how it isn't but she couldn't answer.

She just said I was being unreasonable for not trying but I don't her she's the unreasonable one for not taking on for an answer.

AITA for not giving her oral sex?