A bit long but I am being made to seem like I am dramatic

My friend had came to me about how she misses her ex from 2 years ago and was unsure if he had a girlfriend now. I told her to text him and just see if he does so she does and they have a convo flowing. She later calls me and by then my boyfriend had came into the room, she asked if she could talk to him to get a man’s point of view (I dont mind that seeing as my other friends have had conversations with him through me). She mentioned to both of us that he said he was in a relationship but was confused on why he would even reply to her message.

This is where it gets weird my boyfriend then starts to talk to him even though he has a girlfriend because “men like that” he started saying how my friend was probably his favourite ex. There was more to the conversation but it was getting strange and I advised my friend to not ruin someone’s relationship because she still has feelings for someone it’s morally right. My friend did not listen to me and had listened to my boyfriend and was basically saying she would ruin the relationship etc.

Then yesterday she calls me again and refers to my boyfriend as her friend and asked if she could speak to him. I gave him the phone as he was right next to me and hear we go with the same conversation I felt uncomfortable with, you could now easily tell my frustration and when the phone had ended I texted her about how she will not be going on the phone to him again and how she made me extremely uncomfortable especially after she found it funny that I was getting annoyed. I also spoke to my boyfriend about his behaviour and he said he would stop.

Hours later my friend calls me again and she wanted to bring up the same conversation and ask if she still could not speak to him, she was also asking if my boyfriend had said something in the background to her, we both told her no. I told her no she cannot speak to him and no she cannot speak to me about this conversation again. She said she was getting annoyed and ended the phone, after that my boyfriend said he could never be my friend and he had called me insecure.

I am starting to feel like my feelings are not being seen and maybe I am being a bit dramatic. I just feel the conversation is a bit strange to be having to your friend’s boyfriend and to your girlfriend’s friend, it is weird and not right.