My (35M) wife (30F) are currently in a big argument and she’s saying she is done and my next wife can deal so on. Back story my wife wanted to go to FL for our kids SB, a month ago she mentioned it started trying to make plans. Asked me a couple times if I’d taken off work but I hadn’t so I told my boss probably going to be off (insert week). I didn’t tell her I took off but no plans were ever made so I told work probably not taking off. Fast forward couple weeks and I am informed that she and the kids will be leaving Sunday morning to go to FL (this was Saturday evening). I stated that I had to work Monday so she started looking for flights for Monday evening for me to join. When she departed on Sunday she still didn’t know where exactly they were going or how big the rental was going to be. I was informed on Monday where this vacation was taking place and that the Condo was big enough for everyone. At this point flights were more expensive then gas so I decided I would drive. I informed my wife of my plan to arrive Tuesday night maybe Wednesday morning. I was then told to not worry about coming and just stay home. Well fine I guess. Since then I have been told we are done and she wants a divorce and that she would rather be with someone that wants to take trips with her. I will say I missed out on two other trips she planned last minute once due to plans and the other due to being broke and unemployed at the time. AITA for not going on a last minute trip with my wife that I had planned on going to but she basically told me I’m not to come?