Hi guys, I will keep this very short and simple So basically what happened was I have a friend let’s call her M, she was a sweet girl and we became friends over the course of my junior year in high school.

Around six months ago she told me that she had a crush on a guy and showed me a picture (Let’s call the guy F). He was in my middle school and I had a crush on him, and he also had a crush on me but we were never a thing officially.

I told her about that and she told me that she didn’t care about that and she was over him, that she didn’t like him any longer, hence the topic ended and we did not talk about it after that.

Fast forward a few months ago I needed an actor for my media shoot and my best friend recommended me to ask F in order to act in my film. I didn’t mind that idea and asked M if she would be okay with it?

M said that she would also like to ask him for acting in her film , so I again asked her if she would be okay if I asked if for my shoot as well and she said yes that’s okay with her!!

Hence while hanging out with her, I texted F in front of M and even showed her the text I sent to him,

He agreed to act and asked to meet up in order for briefing of the film,(he also met M not just me ) all this while we did not have any sort of personal communication, Every text message was solely for the film that I was directing and I sent all the screenshots of our communication M as well.

To fast forward F did not ended up acting in either of our films ( apparently he was busy in other areas of his life and didn’t have time) and we got other people to act for us and the chapter was closed.

Now recently we became part of a friend group with some more people from our Media class, in which M and I both are included. One day while we were having a group call, I had to disconnect the call earlier. Later, one of my friends from that group , let’s call her Z informed me that M was talking about me and F And that She said that I betrayed her and because of me F did not act in her film and that I was a backstabber and that I did wrong for her.

I confirmed this with other people from the group and she indeed did say that While I didn’t even have an idea that she felt that way she never told me that she was uncomfortable by me texting F, nor did she ever told me anything negative about the whole situation.

And now in front of the new group that has been formed, She has painted me as the bad person. Hence here I wanted to ask Am I really wrong for texting my former classmate for help? Because everyone from the group is now somewhere against me and it feels like they don’t want me around and as if I’m a burden on them, it just feels so isolating and humiliating. So please help me what do I do and was I really wrong for this ?