📝 AITA for Not Letting My Best Friend’s Fiancé Stay Over After He Hit On Me?

By sorcerysupprem • Score: 113 • April 17, 2025 11:28 PM


So, this happened last weekend, and now I’m feeling kinda bad, but also, I don’t know if I was wrong. I (21F) have been best friends with someone for years. She’s amazing,(22F) but her fiance (24M) has always given me weird vibes. Anyway, they came over to stay at my place for a couple of nights.

One night, my friend went to bed early, and I ended up talking to her fiance. He was drunk, and at first, it was fine, just normal conversation. But then he started complimenting me a lot. He said I looked way more my typethan my friend and asked me if I wanted to go hang out in his room. I was wearing this dress I know looks cute, but I never expected it to lead to that.

I was uncomfortable, told him no, and tried to leave the conversation, but he kept pressing. I went to bed early to avoid the situation. The next morning, I told my friend what happened because I thought she needed to know, but she freaked out and said I was overreacting, even accusing me of ruining the weekend. Now she’s barely talking to me.

I’m just wondering if I did the wrong thing? Should I have just kept quiet? AITA?

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