Okay so I have this friend and for contacts we have known each other for 10 years we've met at a shelter she came to my State Ohio when she was turning 18 and she came from Michigan. She didn't really know anybody and you know I had to protect her because she kind of did have a bit of a mouth on her but we ended up becoming friends we have our tips and our little fights every now and then but she's an overall good person with a good heart just wanted to make that clear she does have a lot of baggage from whatever happened to her back in Michigan and I'm thinking this is probably the reason why.

So she has been obsessed with you know having a baby after I got pregnant because my pregnancy really wasn't planned I use protection stuff happened I ended up pregnant and I'm not sure if it was after my pregnancy that she became obsessed with wanting to have a baby but it was just like it was on her mind non-stop 24/7. He did have her little relationships with men none of them worked out until she met her current boyfriend we're going to call him Michael for obvious reasons. When she met Michael they met at church they loved each other they went out on dates they got to know each other his mom wasn't really too fond of her for unknown reasons but you know what mother is in fond of any woman dating their son.

So they started dating and then like two and a half years into relationship she got pregnant I was excited for her because I was like oh my God is going to have a cousin and yes I know we're not blood related but you know how that works. So I was all excited for her and you know everything was going well and then unfortunately she did have a miscarriage. And it just like she kept having miscarriage at the miscarriage and it's like after the third and miscarriage it's like she stopped going to actual doctor's appointments and getting prenatal vitamins and doing everything that is required to do during a pregnancy. I'm not saying she just became cold-hearted because unfortunately I found out the fourth time she told me she was pregnant her boyfriend and her were going through a rough patch and he told her he was leaving her because he couldn't deal with it anymore on top of them losing the kids through each pregnancy miscarriage I don't think he could take it anymore.

So I ended up finding out she told me she was pregnant again I ended up talking to him because he is a good guy and you know I can calm him down pretty easily so I talked to them and have them you know makeup and told him to be there for her and the baby. But then I found out they got into another argument 2 months later because he found out she faked her pregnancy and then come to find out it wasn't the first time she faked a pregnancy and she never told me the only time I found out was when he told me that she admitted to faking the pregnancy to get him to stay.

I had no idea it was ever that bad like now they are consistently arguing back and forth and I just found out a few years ago she told me this module I'm in the process of moving from a shelter to a house she's tells me she's the God Mom to this new Lady's kid I don't know her she don't know this lady either she tells me all excitedly I'm the God Mom to this little boy and mind you this little boy is still living with her he's been living with her since he was 7 months old and it was just like she took on the responsibility of taking care of him without knowing how much it will affect her. I don't understand why she doesn't grasp the concept being a parent is not an easy task it is very stressful at time especially if you are in a financial bind and you are penny pinching every 5 seconds and as a single mother I know how that is you make sure your child has everything they have a roof over they have food in their stomachs make sure they have a clean home it can be stressful at times.

But then she told me recently she was pregnant last year back in 2024 and I wanted to believe her because she scheduled an appointment I saw her schedule disappointment and then it was just like she never went to it cuz she said they called her and canceled and rescheduled and sometimes I understand that can happen but every time before when she had a miscarriages it was always them canceling and not her or it was just not her wanting to go so it kind of made me wonder if she was deliberately trying to hide the fact that she wasn't pregnant because a lot of people around her started suggesting she was never pregnant to begin with and was trying to keep her man with her.

And recently her boyfriend sent me a picture of a pregnancy test that she apparently sent him from a Walmart stating that she wasn't feeling good so she took a pregnancy test and came back positive and after being told on two different occasions she faked the pregnancy he is confused on if he can't believe her and I'm stuck on if I shouldn't even confront her on the fact that he told me that she was supposedly pregnant and they if I know about the other two fake pregnancies at this point I don't know what to do they do I confront her or do I just you know try to help her figure out why she has the need to be a mom so badly?

And also a note to be made the little boy she's been watching she's been watching him for the last 2 years at this point he turns 3 in 2 weeks and I'm worried that she's been taking care of the little boy without the actual mother's help she doesn't get any money any type of assistance for him and she's struggling to take care of him and we keep telling her to just give him back to her because it's not really her responsibility because she has no legal right to actually have him but she refuses to let him go.