so i’m (20M) living on my own in a one-bed apartment, not huge but it’s mine. i work full-time and pay all my own bills. my girlfriend (21F) has been staying over a lot lately, and we’ve been dating for like 8 months.

last week she texts me randomly like “i quit my job today!” no heads up, no convo, just boom. quit. i asked her what the plan was and she said “i’ll figure it out, maybe i’ll just move in w you for a while so i don’t have to stress.”

i was like ??? huh?? we never talked about her moving in, especially not like that. i told her i wasn’t cool with that and she got super mad saying “i thought we were serious,” “you don’t support me,” blah blah.

she’s been guilt-tripping me ever since. telling her friends i “abandoned her when she needed me,” and now they’re all in my dms like “wow bro real mature.”

idk man. i’m not trying to be her fallback plan. she didn’t even ask me. just assumed. and now i’m the bad guy?