📝 AITA for not wanting a random picdik

By glindariana • Score: 0 • April 11, 2025 5:55 PM


for context i love my boyfriend we are very active sexually been together almost 2 years and last night he literally told me he died and came back because of the head he got. i was driving between my offices this morning and he randomly sent me a pic of his junk and then we got on the phone together. he said he had a surprise for me on snapchat and i opened it while we were on the phone .. i was like what are you doing at 11:30am watching golf with that hahah and he got his feelings hurt because he thought i was accusing him of something (like watching corn) and it’s happened in the past he knows how i feel about it so i think he got into protective mode and wanted to hang up on me. i told him how context to me means a lot like i don’t wanna see that randomly especially when i can’t do anything about it if u know what i mean. AITA for saying i don’t want an unsolicited picture like that with no context because it’s like well just GIVE CONTEXT as the receiver of that image i would prefer something because then there’s questioning of well what’s making you so .. hard?! he’s at home and im working . he doesn’t like when i say well idc what you do in ur free time or what you look at because he thinks im assuming he’s watching corn and it’s a touchy subject in our relationship because it caused a big argument that almost ended us in the early part of our relationship

when i told him i appreciate context he responds I get it babe but it was just to surprise you because you always love seeing it I was trying to be nice

my thoughts: well can u be extra nice and add a little wordage to ur pic because maybe im crazy but

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