AITA for picking a fight with a girl? I will not disclose my name or age for privacy reasons, but I will tell you that I am a biological male, though I'm transfeminine. I live is a very religious town, and me and my many friends get harassed because if our identifications and sexualities. We were having a free period (I am in school) when a girl playing volleyball with her friends, she purposely hit my friend in the head with the ball multiple times. Pissed me off, but I didn't want to cause trouble. She threw a ball at my ass and made fun of my sexuality when a friend of her's apologized. I stood up and said, "You can't be talking when you switch boyfriends every five days you wh--" I didn't finish my sentence, not wanting to cause trouble. She stormed up to me and I did the same, our friend groups getting between us, I told her to "Fuck off" multiple times. This continued three more times in a single hour. After the first confrontation, I had a psychological meltdown after the first confrontation. I had trauma from my dad arguing and I have a fear of loud noise, not making anything better. She kept on harassing me and my friends as we quarreled nonstop while comforting my still hurt and crying friend from being hit with a ball so many times. I told my mother and cousin, and they both said if I did get into a physical fight with the girl, I would've been the asshole because I'm biologically male and would've won, but I don't discriminate on gender, if you piss me off enough, we're going to have a problem. So that begs the question, AITA?