📝 AITA for putting my friend in visitor mode in minecraft after she kept killing me?

By DependentSite8742 • Score: 2 • April 18, 2025 1:27 AM


Im not sure how to go about this but i 16f and her 15f have been friends for like 6 or 7 years and over the past year or so shes been blocking me and getting mad about small things like over the past like 3 weeks we havent really played much we usually play fortnite or minecraft or roblox but she has this friend i'll call her "kie" and theyve been friends for like 2 years kie is 14 turning 15 this year and everytime i join them on roblox or fortnite or minecraft, they leave the game on roblox and play something else or refuse to acknowledge me with fortnite they kick me from the party and make it so its invite only and on minecraft she puts me on visitor mode until i leave and its annoying but she says its because im making her lag because i make pig islands i like pigs okay and shes been blocking me on every form of social media ( snapchat, tiktok, instagram, LIFE360 OF ALL FREAKING THINGS.) and like i was scrolling through her story because im finally unblocked obvs and i see her posted up on her story with her friend kie and theyre both playing mc with her friends little brother after i asked if she wanted to play and she said no because she was tired so i replied saying "fawk you i asked earlier and you always say nooo jerk face" CZ I WS KIDDING N SHE KNOWS THAATTTT ik i ws lwk mean for that i apologized and then she said "Cause me and kie like have never argued abt anything, she dont crash out over little stuff and allat apologies if i want a peaceful game 🥀" so i said "you crash out... over my gameplay" and she said "Dude mb if id rather play with someone who puts up with me rather than someone getting mad all the time over nothing" the only time i get mad is when she kicks me from the party when her friends join or if like i suggest we play and she says yeah sure then when the party is full im the first one to go and so i told her"i dont have anyone else to play with" and she said" you literally do tho" and i told her "i have 2 people besides you and that is beto and ej but beto is busy with his girlfriend all the time and ej doesnt have time to play anymore because of school" and i told her nvm mb for bringing it up because i wanted to backtrack because she'd js end up blocking me and she told me "idk why you ruined your friendship with jonah or wtv but you literally have him too" which that lowkey hurt because jonah is my ex and im still cool w him but hes the one who said it'd be best if we werent friends anymore and she left me on read and i have a gc with her, jonah, ej, and beto for fortnite and mc or roblox so we hopped on minecraft and we started building a house i had 2 chickens in my room and i went off to explore i come back she stole my chickens so i tried getting them back she broke my bed and i lost all my stuff she put it in my chest then i was back at spawn instead of our house and i got mad because kept killing me so i put her in visitor mode and she got mad left the game called me a few choice words before leaving the call and i was talking to jonah about what happened and he kept cutting me off so i got mad then aswell and got off the game i texted him later saying i was sorry for getting mad and asked if he wanted to get on fortnite and he said said "no mc better" which i wasnt mad about it i js hopped on fn alone and said "i bet youre prolly playing with the hater" and he said "😬 im not on anyside i fw you both" and theyre not on call in the gc so theyre probably private calling which i dont fw cuz they did not fw each other until i stopped being friends with jonah so idk about that and the whole situation is js idk shes my only friend like literally i stopped making friends after like 7th grade

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