I (28F) have began resenting my father (57M) because his behavior closely mimics my ex. To give a little context my ex is being charged with 2 felony’s for assaulting me and has always been verbally cruel. My father hasn’t done anything that extreme that I know about but he does treat my mom the way my ex treated me. Meaning she does all the cooking/cleaning, she does his laundry and he complains if it’s not put away properly, he expects to be considered in all decisions but doesn’t consider anyone else in his, etc. I’m having constant thoughts that he’s going to snap the way my ex did and do something to my mom. I’ve spoken to my therapist about it and she feels talking to him is not an option based on his past reactions to me doing that as a teen. The thing is I know he’s dealing with things from his childhood and I can see why he has trouble with something’s, AITA for starting to develop a resentment towards him even though he’s fighting his own battles?