I, (28,F) and my Fiance A (32, M) have an 8 month old daughter. Since I lost my job 3 months ago I've been a SAHM while looking for work. However, his income isn't enough so I've been using my savings to pay half of the bills. For the past few weeks shes been sleeping less and less, fussy with feedings and naps and generally upset because shes teething. Most of the day is spent comforting and entertaining her and cleaning the house. Because he gets home late shes usually asleep but has been waking up between 2-3 am and staying awake for a couple of hours. Averaging wake up time is 6-7am. Needless to say im not getting a lot of sleep. Well today A had the day off and went to the doctor for 2 hours for a physical and then we came home. Baby had been fussy and finally took a nap in the car on the way home and slept a bit at home. Within 20 minutes she was up again and it was close to another feeding so I asked if he could feed her and he said no because he was too tired from the doctor. I snapped and told him that id been up since 6:30 and was exhausted from lack of sleep the past 3 days. He told me that he was exhausted from working 8 hour shifts and that 2 hours at the docs office was exhausted and he didn't feel good. I snapped and told him that he wasn't allowed to be tired because he at least doesn't have to get up in the middle of the night and take care of baby, or clean the house, or cook.. he snapped back that I was being insensitive and he was working hard to advance in his job since I lost mine. So AITA for telling him he's not allowed to be tired?