📝 AITA for telling my sister to get an abortion instead of congratulating her?

By iiKuiKiua • Score: 4 • April 16, 2025 8:44 PM


ok soooo i (16f) have a sister (25f) who is a literal disaster. no job. no money. still lives at home. spends all day watching tiktoks and ordering uber eats she can’t afford. and she just announced she’s pregnant. like. WHAT.

and not even like “omg i’m scared i need help” nah. she came in all smiles w her lil balloon like she’s about to win mother of the year or something. whole fam sitting there like ????

also just so u get the FULL picture she’s huge. like actually. she has health problems out the ass. her doc literally told her before that pregnancy could KILL her. and she’s just out here like “this baby is a blessing!” girl it might be a funeral.

so me, being the only sane one in this house, said (and yeah maybe i said it a lil cold but whatever) “you should seriously consider an abortion bc this is not it.” and she LOST HER MIND. started crying, yelling, saying i was heartless and cruel and “ruined her moment” lmaooo

my mom’s like “you didn’t have to say it like that” and my dad just left the room. like literally walked out. and THEN… here comes the TEA.

so later i’m in my room and i hear my parents arguing. like full-on whisper yelling. turns out…. nobody even knows who the baby daddy is. she told them “it’s complicated” which is code for “i don’t actually know.” and APPARENTLY it’s either her sketchy ex (who had a RESTRAINING ORDER on her btw) OR this 18 YEAR OLD who’s got a gf. and he used to come over for “tutoring” and apparently that’s not all she was helping him with.

so now my sister’s acting like she’s got her life together while cooking a baby she prob shouldn’t even be having, and we’re all just supposed to smile and nod. but i’m the villain bc i said the quiet part out loud??

AITA for saying what EVERYONE ELSE is thinking but won’t say bc they’re scared of setting off the human landmine that is my sister???

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