I 28m and my wife 29f are currently in a huge fight over her odd habits that are getting worse by the second. It all started when she began cleaning and wiping down the counter everyday, I have no problems with her cleaning and I thought she was just trying to be more productive and clean. About 2 to 3 weeeks later I see her cleaning evry table and dusting way more often than usual. I started to find it odd because this was every day and nothing else was different, she seemed completely fine through the day and night so I didn't really know how to address the cleaning thing knowing she'd flip out on me like she had in the past. Since I was in a sort of stuck position I just carried on with my days. Next few weeks she's spending more time cleaning than eating, sleeping, ect. So I was very worried about her and decided that I need to man up and talk to her about what's been going on. After telling her I'm concerned she completely lashed out on me and said that "I was to young to understand" and considering I'm one year younger than she is I thought she was just in a bad spot because she had never said anything about my age in the past. Because I was mad in the moment I yelled at her and told her how she's such a neat freak and can't get her OCD shit together. Looking back I didn't mean it but really upset her and I've been trying to apologize but she won't talk to me. AITA?