Me 16m and her 15f started dating around December 2024. It started out so happy until the past couple of months. She would say that im abusive for asking nicely for her to not post mirror pictures on tiktok. Then i asked her if she would stop texting this boy bsf she had and she blew up on me even tho im not even allowed to glance at another girl or else she wouldnt talk to me. I consider these normal relationship things and i guess she didnt like that. Ive never put my hands on her or forced her to do anything or called her anything besides baby which i also consider normal. 3 months ago we were hanging out and she had a night gown on when she got to my house and i asked politely if she wouldnt wear that around my family because it literally was a sheet and underwear and it made my Christian family uncomfortable and she took that as verbal abuse.

4 days ago we got into a fight and we didnt know if we were gonna break up or not and she put her hands on me when she tried to leave. I didnt touch her back i just calmed her down but ever since then i would be scared when she would raise her hands and she said she was sorry but it broke my heart. The next day things were better and she helped me through the day, but Tuesday was the complete opposite. After monday she started to say she doesn’t wanna continue the relationship and i asked why and it was because i apparently put her through hell and was abusive and i asked her what i did and she said she doesn’t have to answer that. Then after we decided to break up she called me that night saying she was sorry and she was in the wrong, we agreed to try again and get back together and i even told her from now on things will look different and she agreed and said she wanted to try.

The next day i asked if she wanted to talk about anything. She basically blew up on me and said that i was manipulative and abusive and she was scared of me even tho ive never hit or done anything to her. I understand the break up and i was fine but apparently she wanted the final word and started verbally abusing me and telling me im worth nothing and all i asked her to do was drop my clothes off at my house and i would give her the stuff she gave me, but no apparently i was ordering her around and being controlling.

AITAH or did i dodge a bullet.