AITA for wanting my boyfriend to make me his life insurance beneficiary? He owes me at least 11K. His policy is only 25K. He has no intent on paying me back anytime soon so I asked if I could be his beneficiary so that I dont get completely fucked if something were to happen to him. I very nicely and easily handed over money to him and it's like pulling teeth trying to get any of it back and a portion of the money he spent without my knowledge or consent. He got so pissed at me and called me all kinds of names just because I asked. I told him, im good enough to lay with but not good enough to pick your casket? So tell me please, am I the asshole?