So I need some help, two years ago my ex husband (27m) and I (29f) got divorced due to him having an affair. Despite the affair he was the most loving and caring man I’ve ever been with. He cheated with his secretary who was (24f) last I heard. They’re now married and expecting a child. And I’m still here, alone. I’ve been in relationships, Had hookups & tried new things but his love has always been overshadowing me. My new boyfriend (28m) is a kind man but he’s never been anywhere near the same level of love and care as my ex. I feel like an asshole for being so mean toward him because he does truly love me and appreciate me. But can someone help? Any women who have had the same issue or similar issue? Thanks.