Would I be the asshole if I wanted to disappear without letting my husban know where I'd be and possibly ending everything? I (25) f just found my husband (25) M looking up a porn actress then looks identical to his stepsister? I put a question mark because his dad isn't his bio dad it's his step dad and his real dad passed when he was a baby. His parents are divorced has one half sister. After the divorce his dad got together with an old high school friend and she happens to have 2 daughters around the same age as us. We saw them for Easter and I knew he was staring at her I called him out for it and he lost his shit on me saying wtf was I talking about and stormed off from me. Since then he hasn't touched me and he's followed her...I'm hurt I'm angry and I'm pregnant with his baby...he's also deploying in May and I'm just over all his shit but I love him and don't know what to think logically. Really just need kind advice and encouragement. I already feel mentally incapable of thinking.