Been married almost 18 yrs, and throughout this marriage I’ve NEVER been able to establish my side of the bed. I’ve always said something about it when it happens and it’s dismissed like it’s petty. I’m either gonna have sleep in a separate room, or just divorce his ass. Would I be the AH?

EDIT: When I say MY side of the bed, I’m sayin EITHER side is fine, I just want whichever it is to stay that way. Hope this helps