DISCLAIMER!! THIS IS MY FRIENDS STORY AND HE WANTED TO SHARE THIS HERE BUT HE DIDN'T HAVE A REDDIT ACCOUNT! HE WOULD LIKE SOME CONFIRMATION ON IF HE IS AN ASSHOLE OR NOT!!

For context, I, 21(M). Have a roommate, 23(F) who has been very intrusive for the entire while I've been here. It started with her insisting she has to know where I was going a few nights ago. Then it all came to a head yesterday morning. I had just come home from a nightshift and had a shower, I then went to my room. (For context, my roommate and I have separate rooms but my room does not have a lock on it.) And while I was changing, roommate knocked on the door, nothing unusual so I just replied "I'm getting dressed! Can you wait a few minutes?" Then all of a sudden, she opens my door, mind you, I am naked and have my jeans and boxers in my hand, I instantly shove her out of my room and slammed the door, she insists there's nothing wrong with it at all. I then proceeded to berate and scream at her through the door for 5 minutes, long story short, she started crying and texting people that I am an asshole, though I will admit I wished I didn't make her cry, I felt as if I was somewhat valid for what I said. I have been so angry texting a few of my friends, some of them says that I was too harsh. So am I the asshole?