i 27f have a roommate 26f who i met at work. we were like sisters and we decided to get a room together. before getting a room, we were in a dormitory which has strict rules, no curfew and visitors. now, that we have an apartment, we are excited to have friends over sometimes and not have a curfew.

it has only been half a month staying here, and i cannot stand the fact that her bf is always here. he is not staying over for the night as i made it clear. no bf sleep overs if the other one is here. however, they are very PDA and i am getting so uncomfortable about it. there are no heads up that her bf will be coming over. there were times that i just want to rest after a long day at work, and i get home and her and her bf are intertwined on her bed.

the only solution i saw was to set ground rules or house rules which will limit the visit of her bf (and my bf too, my bf hasnt been here) from lets say 4/7 days of the week, to only 2 per week and there will be curfew for the bf.

i just cant stand it and i cannot really move around freely. i cant explain it but i am just uncomfortable.

i told her about this and she told me that she will just move out kind of put her in a bad mood. i told her that they can continue the rent but still insisting on moving out.

i feel really bad. and i do not know what to do. i am sad and disappointed at the same time.

aita for confronting her and setting up boundaries for the visits of her bf?