So I (19F) have been dating my boyfriend (21M) for about 6 months now. a few weeks ago, he added me to his group chat with his close friends cause we were all gonna meet for a trip they were planning. at first it was chill, they were welcoming and all, but then the “jokes” started.

It started off small like calling me “miss influencer” when I’d post selfies, or saying stuff like “oh she’s high maintenance” when I mentioned I liked getting my nails done. I laughed it off even tho it made me kinda uncomfortable.

But then one of them sent a meme about girls who “trap guys” and tagged me in it like “yo this you?” and everyone reacted with laughing emojis. I didn’t even know what to say.

The thing is, I don’t even post anything that crazy online. I mean, I try to look cute, sure, but I don’t think I give off that vibe... you can probably see what I mean.

I asked my boyfriend in private if he could maybe say something cause it was getting kinda disrespectful, but he said “they’re just joking, don’t take it personal.”

So a few days ago I just quietly left the group chat. didn’t make a scene or anything. now some of them are calling me “too sensitive” and my boyfriend says I made it awkward for him with his friends.

But like… if I don’t feel comfortable, isn’t it okay to just step away? AITAH for leaving the chat?