My fiancee (stay at home mom) and I are 26yrs old and we have been together for 10yrs. Highschool sweethearts and we have a 3yr old now. Fast forward, we haven’t been as intimate as we use to but I’ve been making a point to try and be more attentive to her needs emotionally and physically and speak delicately cause I can come off as rude. But today she’s on her period and bashing me yet again during her period. It seems unavoidable because I work 5days a week from 5pm-6am and she feels unappreciated. I gave her a break yesterday by taking our daughter to my moms after I got off work at 6am and let her sleep in. She appreciated it then but today I’m the bad guy like I never do anything to help. AITAH?

Me: I understand you are sensitive now and your feelings are valid but I don’t wanna seem like I am being rude or anything.. We are not enemies we are a team and we will get thru this like we do all the time. Sorry for my short comings but I’m not perfect. A work in progress like everyone else. I love you and don’t want to sabotage our day by bickering back and forth.

Gf: Okay. Im not mad Just hate when u try and act like u so damn clueless 🤣🤣🤣 u not stupid. U just dont care 🤷🏽‍♀️🤣 Ive sent u a list of shit we needed like two days in a row, asked for a break, food, lmao someone to take care of and love me, and youve done nothing differently lol Matter of fact, i woke up to piss on my back and a bitchy toddler, and u woke up and took a 30 minute self care pussy bitch shower 🤣 we are not a team. I am an employee lololol i watch the baby and clean the house for my bills to be paid. Lets keep it 💯🤣Im reaaaaaally not mad. Just sayin

(Tried to just post screenshots but the community don’t allow it, so sorry if it’s a lil choppy and women’s advice especially please)