I recently started dating a new guy, and we've been dating about a month or so. I was talking to him a few months ago but things kinda fizzled out and he reached out to me again. However, this time around we''ve been out on several dates and it was time to take it to the physical level and we had our first intimate experience. Upon completion of said moment, he brought up another female. He said, verbatim, "I cant believe I'm going to say this... " and then he went and said it. He went into detail about an intimate experience with what started as "this lady"... only as the story went on... 'this lady' turned into.. his 'friend'... that then turned into her name and this woman is someone he has brought up on each of our dates. Anyhoo, he asked me, if I would do this particular thing that he brought up that he did with her.

I looked at him with disgust and was like "No. So that you can think of her while I'm doing it?" He thought my reply was cute, bc he said it showed I was territorial and that I liked him. (WEIRD)

The next day I expressed my distaste for what happened the previous night. I was extremely upset and felt disrespected as he sat there and talked about another woman, at a point that was meant for him and I. His response initially was " We're just friends, I promise". He explained that they are just friends, best friends apparently and he tells her everything. She knows about me, and that I would like her. I asked him how he would have felt had I done the same thing? He said he understood and would not bring her up anymore. He retorted that I have brought up my male friend. (The thing is.. my male friend is gay and we have never had a sexual experience of ANY sort).

Needless to say this resulted in a very heated argument. He said he didn't do anything wrong and did not disrespect me and that I am stupid for bringing it up and that I need to get off my pedestal.

AITAH because I don't want to see him anymore?