So my (28F) ex gf (32F)and my best friend(28M) totally disliked each other when they first met. My (now ex) gf and I are trying to figure out how to maintain a friendship but it’s been complicated. Anyway, my best friend liked me since we were kids but he is friendzoned. He and I had a falling out after he spoke to me disrespectfully, around the same time my gf and I broke up. I later found out that they started a bond and have hung out a number of times while I was on the outs with both of them. I think he was doing it to try and get in contact with me somehow. I know for a fact that they bonded over their mutual aggravation towards me. He and I have a long history (our fathers grew up together and we got close because of that.) He eventually came back around after I wished him a happy birthday. Fast forward to now, he has been irritating me a lot. Always makes snarky comments when we hang out, regarding him paying for me when I literally always tell him I’m broke and cant afford to go out, but he never cares. He will gladly take me out then belittle me. Who has money to go out every night? I have bills I have to pay. So my question is, aitha for getting upset that they are hanging out a lot? I’ve been trying to hang out with my ex gf but I found out that she’d been spending time with him, and idk it just bothers me. They didn’t even like each other at first.