This just happened on her birthday

We had another bad argument there so basically we were there with my friend and his girlfriend and he tried to tell the waitress in a secret way it was her birthday but she told me to ask the same time if they get anything free so I asked and the waitress said no just singing happy birthday and then I still asked anyways and the waitress said you should’ve left it as a surprise and she said something along the lines of “that’s so embarrassing I don’t want no fucking birthday celebration” I basically shut down after that and didn’t really talk and was on my phone and she texted me why I was quiet and I said why and she apologized but I still felt sad but later I still tried to talk and start a convo and ask if she liked the sauce and food and stuff then she mentioned her friend whose name I had asked her not to bring up before because it’s connected to her past but not in a good way like private trauma and she was still talking about her yesterday so I was just reminding her and then I was just scrolling on insta story and some random girl was showing off her gym progress and she was like why you watching that (jokingly) and then compared it to said friend’s name about another guy when she liked their mutual friend half naked gym pic but said she wasn’t paying attention and liked anything either way that was an odd joke to make even if she had nothing to talk about so I got quiet again Then after that she asked me to get her nail glue from my bag I check the pocket and she put it in a really packed pocket where I have like a poop air freshener for public and its small q tips in a bag and napkins in a bag and the cover for the air freshener falls and she claims she forgot this happen but everyone had their flash on under the table looking for it and then she kept saying she couldn’t reach and then she got it and then I asked why did you put it in the most packed pocket and she didn’t say anything

And then on top of that I took everything out the pocket and it wasn’t in there

I told her that

She insisted it was in there

I checked another pocket and found it and she didn’t say anything

After when we were talking about it at like 5 am she said she forgot she was tired and she didn’t eat anything all day and I understand that you’re just a human

But after that she claims I was being petty there and talking to my friend and his girlfriend fine and her dry but I really wasn’t talking to anyone fine I was just trying to keep my composure and then she basically wanted to take an uber home by herself and leave me there and she calls her sister in the uber and proceeds to tell her a one sided story and say hurtful stuff while I’m right there listening so she’s basically trying to be petty and saying how I ruin her day and I don’t care and we were basically arguing in the uber and then when we were walking to her house she’s like we’re done idk you ima call the cops her little brother lets me in and she’s just walking around the block on the phone with her sister and then she came in the house talking so loud and was like ima be petty and just kept saying the friend’s name so I call my friend and his girlfriend and tell them I end up breaking down because why would I purposely try to ruin your birthday.. and she just said ew and she doesn’t care and then we talked about it at like 5 am but she wasn’t really listening just interrupting me saying she doesn’t care and being upset and she said we’re not together this point on

And when we got inside she said I can sleep but leave in the morning

So yeah

And she said she talked to her aunts and friends and they said I’m childish… How am I being childish when I was the one who got cursed at She said she doesn’t remember cursing then she says it was only one word of cursing So what? Though Whenever I get cursed at like that it’s obvious I’m going to shut down and why are you cursing at me in public with them And she was upset how they were talking fine and cuddling and I was just on my phone