Specifics on the fight doesn't matter. This a general inquiry. I don't function well when people raise their voices at me. I don't raise my voice and expect the same in return. I think I may be in the minority, but this is who I am and I accept it. I've given warnings during the conversations to lower their voice, at first complied. But then it escalates and flat out telling me no when I ask again. I understand the heat of the moment, slipping into old behaviors. Like one warning should be enough to bring attention to it. As I'm typing, I feel like I'm dealing with a teenager.

The real question, is raising your voice generally accepted in mainstream dating scene? I may just not date anymore.