I mentioned to friends at a poker night two weeks ago a sexy ritual my wife has when I go on work trips - a “gift” she always hands me when she drops me off at the airport. I thought it was a harmless and cute story in good fun, but three of the guys told their wives, and two of those wives mentioned it to my wife.

It’s not a huge deal, but my wife was kind of like Great, these women all know this now. And I considered this kind of a breach of “guy code.”

Am I wrong? Should you assume a guy will tell his wife everything? AITAH?