By Nervous-Tourist-8031 • Score: 0 • April 6, 2025 1:50 AM
I’m a senior in Highschool and I have two friends, Elena 17F and Josie 17F. (Josie and Elena knew each other before me, remember this for later) We were really close and our friend group was small and we would hangout all the time. Elena had a crush on a guy she met at the library and as her friend I told her to go for it and I even helped her out, they became girlfriend and boyfriend, but it was weird on my perspective they’ve been talking for a month. (I never had a boyfriend so I don’t know how it works) anyways, more and more she would stop hanging out with me and eventually leaving my messages on read or delivered. I thought it was weird because this was nothing like Elena, we would do everything together and hangout 24/7. Later on, I caught her and her boyfriend together and I was excited to hangout with her and finally meeting and introducing myself to her boyfriend. However, when I came over she argued saying I was being a stalker and threw me off completely. I tried to joke around with them but her boyfriend was uncomfortable and she was being dry, and then she asks me if I was gonna be late to class. Through my perspective I thought she was kicking me out and trying to make me go back to class, but through her perspective she was just “looking out” for me. I was upset and decided to leave. I texted her asking why she was pushing me away but she texted back that she’d never replace me over a boy. I was feeling better and the next day we agreed to meet up and walk together again, however that day comes and she tells me to wait a little longer because she was with her boyfriend. I was tired of being alone waiting for her so I left and went back to class.
Later on, Josie starts ignoring me as well. Whenever I would try talking to her or even go up to her she’d give me the cold shoulder or dry responses. I was so confused on what was going on so I left her alone, for weeks it’s been like this until Josie finally told me why they both stopped talking to me,
Elena was mad at me because I got upset when she would hangout with her boyfriend, and when Elena told Josie, Josie got mad at me and believed Elena because Josie knew Elena before she knew me.
now here’s where the story ends because I’m confused 1. Why is Josie mad at me she wasn’t even there 2. Was I in the wrong for getting upset my friend had her boyfriend prioritized over me
Lastly, they never been the “bestest” friends towards me, I have photos of Josie talking behind my back to Elena and much more. I was just upset that they ganged up against me. This is likely just teenage girl drama but I just want to know what I did that was so wrong
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