Pretty much the title. The other night, I was hanging out with my girlfriend and noticed a message pop up on her smartwatch. I wasn’t trying to snoop — it just flashed right in front of me. The message was from another guy, and friend from running and it said something like “I can’t wait to see you too.”

I didn’t say anything in the moment because I didn’t want to jump to conclusions or cause a scene without knowing the full story. But honestly, it’s been eating at me. We’ve been together for a while now, and I really didn’t expect anything like this.

Now I’m torn between feeling like I’m overreacting or that I have every right to be hurt and suspicious. I haven’t brought it up yet because I’m not sure how to without it turning into a huge fight.

AITAH for feeling upset about this? Should I confront her about it, or am I making a big deal out of nothing?