Hey all, my husband and I have been together for a few years. For the longest time, he told me he used to watch porn back in the day but stopped (before we met) because he hated the way it made him feel. He would look me in the eyes and promise me many many times he didn’t watch it over the past few years.

Fast forward to yesterday. It was the last day of our vacation when he randomly asked me if he could talk to me. I said sure. He then proceeded to confess to me that he has gotten off to pictures and videos of other women on social media at least a few times and he had been lying to me about watching stuff this entire time - years.

At first I didn’t know how to react and I was in disbelief. My husband is not the type to lie (or at least I didn’t think so). But the longer I think about the situation, the more sad and hurt I feel.

I don’t care about the porn part honestly. Rather, the fact that he was able to lie to me so long about something makes me feel ill. I have no desire to talk to him right now and I feel sick and betrayed.

AITAH for not wanting to talk to him because of this? I might be dramatic.

EDIT: I should add that he admitted to lying. I told him I was upset and felt hurt and he immediately got defensive and brought up an argument we had years ago and tried to deflect the situation on me. That’s when I decided I was done talking to him