📝 AITAH for being upset that my bf won’t call me?

By Confident-Passion441 • Score: 3 • April 20, 2025 4:22 AM


My bf and I (long distance) were playing a board game on tabletop simulator (online) with his siblings. When we finished the game I was so tired I fell asleep at my desk for 20 minutes. When I woke up I said that I had fallen asleep and two other people said they were going to head off because they were tired. I tried to call my bf after that and he wouldn’t answer because I fell asleep. He told me that they were going to play the game again if I didn’t fall asleep (basically it’s my fault we didn’t play again). I asked to call him again and he just told me to go to sleep (it was 7pm) and I told him I wasn’t going to. I felt bad that I wasted 20 minutes of everyone’s time but I thought it was unfair that he refused to call me/spend time with me afterwards. I’m a busy uni student so we don’t often get to spend a lot of time doing stuff together. I didn’t fight it because I was mentally exhausted from the week and I just wanted peace. We always FaceTime at night so 5 hours later I asked him if he wanted to. He responded with idk. I mentioned to him that I thought it was unfair the way he was treating me and that it felt like a punishment. His response was that he didn’t want to call me if I was going to be asleep (which I had told him earlier that I wasn’t going to sleep). We went back and forth a bit but basically said the same things. I again, told him I don’t think the way he’s treating me is fair and to that, he responded with “I do”. It infuriates me to be treated this way but I’m not sure if I’m genuinely in the wrong. Any advice?

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